I'm always hearing about how the more attractive women never get asked out or hit on in their day to day because a lot of men think they are out of their league or that they think they get hit on all the time or they're just too intimidated for whatever reason. Would an average looking guy with an average job have a chance with you and if so what could we do to stick out and make ourselves more appealing?
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Emphasize your strengths and favorite parts about you, take care of your financial and other responsibilities, take care of your mental and physical health. This is you being the best you, something attractive to everyone and anyone!
To set yourself apart from just any guy... you would take your interests and find similar groups/communities thus already giving you common interest with any attractive girl you find in it.
To set you apart from the guys with similar interests, compliment the girl on what you genuinely find attractive about her with no expectations. Don't expect a conversation or even a thank you. Why? Because when you act like there's an abundance of attractive woman out there and give a simple compliment to whomever passes by, you will attract more. This is confidence and is one of the tastiest bait.
But most importantly, stay optimistic. If one pretty girl denies you.. Don't assume everyone you think to be attractive will say no. Instead think, "No biggy it wasn't meant to be. There's more women in the sea" Dont let a couple cute girls ruin it you for the attractive girls that ARE looking for someone like you.
Finally, find things you like to do and go do them and go beyond... Put yourself out there. If you run into an attractive girl doing something you like, you immediately have something in common5
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