I used to think I was pretty but now my self esteem has gone down so low and I'm beginning to find myself ugly. I put my picture on here one time and everyone thought I was average. And on GAG I always see other girls getting mentioned but not me. I dont get it because when I am out in public (not to sound conceited) people stare and strangers come up to me saying I'm beautiful. I was one. of the prettiest girls in high school, I get asked out a lot, one stranger even wanted to photograph me. So why doesn't anyone find me pretty on here? I dont exhibit any vanity. I am nothing but nice on here. I dint find myself pretty anymore. Please don't be mean to me I'm already sad
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If you base your happiness off of other people's perceptions of you, you are going to hate yourself.
"You could be the juiciest peach in the world, but not everyone loves peaches."
Take this example:
Two people come out of a movie screening. I comes out crying, the other comes out asking for a refund... It's not the movie, it's the viewers perception. You can't change that.
Take control of what you can: people you surround yourself with, activities you involve yourself in, the way you take care of your physical health and the way you think of yourself and others. Because it's not your looks that define you.
And I assume that you want to attract someone that loves what you are because of what you do... Not because of what you look like, or you'll just attract sex hungry pigs that don't want anything meaningful with you because they don't see beyond looks.
Besides, your looks change as you age and youth, in itself, is the most beautiful thing that not everyone can have for long.2
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