A sexy girl working in clothes store I liked her I talked her about 5 minutes and it was friendly conversation but when I asked her number she said WHY I was surprised I thought she will give it to me but I dont know why she said why.
After she said why I felt I can't say more we talked already and it was enough for me so I said nothing and walked away I was really upset
Did I did my best? Or it was better to continue the conversation? But we talked for 5 minutes already !!
Most Helpful Girl
Well... Why DID you ask for her number? Lol girls get a little defensive because
1) you could be asking her number to make her a booty call. Since you're so confident asking so straightforward she might assume that you've done this before.
2) by friendly talking to her for 5 minutes, you could've put yourself in the nice guy friendzone area. Because maybe you're too nice, she wants an assertive guy.
3) you were too friendly and she might be creeped out that you got too interested too soon without asking her on a date, which comes off as creepy to girls.
When a guy likes a girl he should compliment her, ask her on a date And then get her number.
The longer you hold it off, the creepier it seems and the less chance you have of getting a girls number. Talking to a girl for a long ass time just seems like you're trying to hard like your trying to convince us to like you on the spot.2
- Show AllShow Less