I've been dating this guy for a week, and he texts me everyday and we see each other 4 times, i wasn't sure to date him, bc he is very romantic and that makes me go crazy, he says he likes me a lot, and he's very expressive with me, he expresses his feelings. But I don't know if it's the right moment to date since i already have anxiety and a lot of pain inside. And it's really no good, today we haven't texted, and it's making feel sad, anxious and needy. And i hate being needy, i hate depending on someone. How do i deal with this shit? Should i stop dating him? I'm just so scared that it'll get worse in the future, if now it feels like this. I want to date him but i don't want to date him. And i don't wanna hurt him, i wouldn't know what to tell him.
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Maybe you aren't ready to date right now. Perhaps you should see someone (if you are not already) about your anxiety and see if they can help you with dealing with it. If you are seeing someone, maybe you should talk to them about this situation and get their advice.
If just seems like right now you are just going to get worked up. So what should be fun and exciting turns into another thing to be anxious over. That isn't fair to you or him. So it seems now is not the time.0