My fiance have been through a lot in the two years we have been together.. he has had cancer at age 28 & ' in that process i was pregnant with our 14 month old son Matthew.. it was hard but we were there for each other.. and made us stronger... about 7 months ago he left our home and went to stay with his brother (for a break) things got rough & we split up for two weeks.. he had an affair with his brothers wife while he was drunk.. after that was said and done.. i asked him multiple timez why she was so clingy to him and have they ever done anything he stated no... and invited me over to talk.. i found out later they had sex and he told her he was in love with her and that hurt so bad :'( i took him back... and we are together now.. I'm battling him looking and commenting on beautiful woman and yet saying he loves me and i ask him.. am i good enough still? He states yes I'm in live with you and i want only you.. he says I'm his love and we are doing good.. except that incedint.. i just think about that a lot & it hurts me a lot.. what do i do.. i feel unwanted and neglected at times...
-still heart broken trying to make it work?
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I think you two should separate. I know it might be tough on the kid but I think it would be worse if the kid grew up with his parents and saw that they didn't love each other because I don't think that guy loves you. He cheats and then lies to your face about it and he hits on other women apparently open enough for you to see it. Kids aren't as dumb as we think and yours will be able to pick up on the negativity between you and him when he starts growing up. You're in a shitty situation with only really difficult decisions. I hope you can catch a break0