Okay, I'm going through some self esteem issues. I admit. My boyfriends tells me all the time that he likes skinny girls and girls who are slim. Well, I'm not "skinny" I guess you could say. And he's even told me that. I've cried numerous nights because I think I'm so unattractive. I talked to him about it a couple times. He said he liked my body the way it is but still I don't believe him because I don't think he's attracted to my body type. I'm even trying to lose weight because I feel uncomfortable and fat in my skin. He said I looked (and I'm quoting this too. These are his own words) "that you looked so petite and sexy when you were skinny". I think that is most shallow thing I have ever heard. Do you think I should break it off with him? I'm tired of feeling not good enough.
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First of all you have to ask yourself what kind of guy would tell his girlfriend the disgusting things he has said to you. That is blatently disrespectful. I think that he is porbably insecure and trying to make you feel insecure too. If he thinks you are big and thinks you were prettier skinny and likes skinny girls then he needs to go find one. You need to break up with him asap and find someone that loves your body and who you are. Your signifigant other is supposed to make you feel sexy, confident, safe, and loved. He isn't doing any of those things so drop him and allow a good guy to make you feel that way.3
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