I like this girl (we're both 16 years old and in high school) and we've been texting quite a lot. I think she likes me aswell, and I'd like to ask her out. I haven't talked a lot to her in real life, but via text i have.
Next week we have test week (there will be a lot of tests during the week, but they're only in the morning, so we actually dont have school in the after noon). So I thought on asking her on Monday if she'd like to go out with me (somewhere during the week), but shall I ask her to choose a date together (the day of the date, not the date itself)? Or shall I come with an suggestion and she can see whether she will be free on that date, or eventually take another day for the date?
My idea for the 'date' was to eat an ice cream together, so we can also talk while eating (i dont know her very well, so i can get to know her better). Also, shall I pay her the ice cream, or does she have to pay it herself? (i would think i have to pay it, because im the one asking her out)
Also, when the 'date' goes really well, shall I ask her to be my girlfriend then? Or do we have to go on another date then? And shall I hug her at the end of the date?
Thanks if you read all of this.
This will be my first date ever, and I dont want to ruine it :P
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first off, start talking to her in real more than texting, come up with as much eye contact as possible,
secondly, instead of asking us if you should give her options of where to go or let her select you can ask herself, like, you can give her some options and she can add up some options herself, and yes probably her selecting up a time/day for the date is better.
if you go for the icecream option, probably you paying for her icecream is a good idea since if she's materialistic she would like that.
after your very first date asking her to be your girlfriend seems like a bad idea (situational), instead telling that you love her and discuss this and learning what she feels for you first is a better idea, if the discussion ends well and she has good and lovely feelings for you, its your decision to either ask right then or on another time, i dont think it would matter at all.
You're very welcome if it works, i didn't get any help at all and i hated that so i wanted to help you, if anything interesting happens you can let me know.0
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