Ok so this is a big deal to me. This text just broke me. So I have liked this guy (call him Seth) for YEARS. He is always sweet to me, but he's always gone for a different girl. Well now I'm dating a guy (Call him Kyle) and we've been together for 3 months. He is sweet to me, and I do like him, but we have NOTHING in common. He is a pc gamer... And that's all there is to him. I'm a country girl, a violinist, a welder, an athlete, basically there is a lot to my life. So Kyle is probably not going to take me to prom, he is shy and that's not his thing. Well the guy I adore, Seth, just texted me and asked me to prom. I'm shaking and feel like I'm going to have an anxiety attack. I like Kyle, he's so sweet and innocent, but I've liked Seth for so long it hurts. like of course he fucking goes for me when I'm not available!!! So should I ask Kyle to let me go with a friend. Should I break up with Kyle in the hope that Seth will take it further with me? Seth and I have serious chemistry. We agree on important stuff, he is country, he is respectful. What do I do?
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you obviously like seth, go with him and do the right thing by kyle and break up with him but BE HONEST about it, he deserves the truth if you're leaving him for another guy, who knows the truth may even help him evolve later in life so don't skimp him. be wary though. you may have a point when you say of course seth likes you when you're off the market.0