I (20f) have been dating my (23m) for two months now. Well, initially he was just bad at replying to any and everyone via texting.. he hates being on his phone period. And it wasn't that big of a deal until he went out of town for two weeks. He won't text or message me unless I do.
I hate being the one to initiate everything, and it wasn't always like this, this has been a recent thing when he was home if two days past he would text me. I talked to him about it and I asked him if he cares about me, I even mentioned to him that to me it's not normal to not talk to your partner for days on end and think everything is ok, for me even if I don't seem them at LEAST a good morning, how are you.. anything would be ok with me.
He said he does care, and that he does think everything is good when we don't talk to each other for three days straight. But that was all. And I didn't say anything to him afterwards, that was three days ago. No text from him since. All he does is watch some of my snaps.
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Speaking as a guy that does the same thing, some guys just hate texting.
If I have something to say, unless its urgent I'll wait until I can talk face to face.1