We currently live together but have been fighting. I dont know if i should continue living with him or live seperately because if we do live seperately then i feel like we will just break up. But living together isn't cool either. Im really not sure about this guy. All i know is that i do really love him.
I don't know follow my heart and stay or follow my logic and move out.
-He was thinking about leaving me for one of his close girlfriends
-He is rude and mean to his mother
-He has been inbetween jobs for over a year and i helped pay for 70% of everything like rent, food, etc. Weed
-hates my family he did not even say bye to me when i went home for spring break...
I know i have flaws too but i do try to improve abd grow i dont see him making a real effort to show remorse
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You can -always- judge a man by his relationship with his mother. Even without the other negative aspects that you listed I think how he treats her merits some worry. He sounds like an emotional and financial drain which is never a pleasant situation to be in. If it is this bad now just imagine things down the road? How will he treat you? Will be beat you to the punch and leave for someone else? He has already been disloyal emotionally and I can almost guarantee it will happen again with the same close girl friend or someone else. You might love him but are you IN love with him?
I could blab for hours but ultimately this is something you need to come to a conclusion to yourself. I hiiiighly recommend drawing up a pros and cons list to have it all right in front of you to evaluate. Ask yourself questions such as "am I happy?" when drawing up the list and I believe you'll have an answer in short order.
Best of luck!1