I've always been under the impression that most guys want to do the pursuing, that they consider women/girls who make the first move to approach them and/or ask them out too pushy or agressive and that it's a turn off.
GIVE REASONS BELOW.
- I'm a female. or otherVote A
- no, I prefer to approach/persue women.Vote B
- yes, I would like more women to approach/persue me.Vote C
and some conversations I've been having there.
I've asked guys out in the past, it isn't an issue for me. I never cared to follow societies rules (in anything, not just gender rules) I'm simply asking if you actually WANT women to ask more.
also, I haven't seen this asked by anyone else. I don't repeat others questions intentionally.