Hi, guys and girls. When you are trying to chase an opposite-sex people, how will think if you find he/she drinks/smokes?
Do you like them? Or not? Or do you even care?
Which one do you like more? Which one do you hate more?
Most Helpful Girl
I think as with everything, drinking is okay within moderation. If the guy is still heading out to bars/club with friends every weekend, that's pretty excessive. However, I'm not opposed to having a beer or glass of wine every weekend or every other weekend for those really relaxing nights in together.
I have a no-smoking policy though. Doesn't matter how much or how often, if the guy is a smoker, it's not going to fly.2
Most Helpful Guy
I completely refrain from smoking and drinking, but that doesn't mean those are 'turn off's for me in a woman, as long as she does them within limits.0