Im 28 years old and i am thinking about dating a 17 year old girl... Even though she's younger than what i normally go for (26/20) she's very mature and every thing i look for in a woman. And she's amazingly hot and cute our personalities match and we have a lot of fun... But im just not sure even though its legal in the uk... Hheellppp please...
Not sure what to do?
What Girls Said 6
... I', 28 years old and I am thinking about dating a 17 year old girl...
Don't start something, star1313, if you are not sure you can finish it. Make sure you think it over, know what you are getting into, and remember, she is living with her family. Weigh all your options. Sometimes the cake looks good in the show case window, but one bite might well tell you, it ends up putting a sour ball in your mouth in the end.
She may be ''Very mature,' however, a girl this age hasn't even begun sampling other mates and may end up being a cheat sheet, missing the kissing what she never shared with another on her wish dish... along with other important factors of still being wet behind the ears in years.
Good luck. xx0
You was 11... when she was born think about that1
It depends... I know a couple of couples (that sounds weird), who have dated when one of the couple was under 18. For both couples, they were devoutly religious and didn't engage in sexual activity as they were proud of their virginity and wanted to wait until they got married. Very nice people, very naïve (try getting a call at 1am from a female friend because she doesn't know what to do on her wedding night), but did they do anything whilst dating, knowing that their significant other was under 18? I don't think so, but public perception would suggest that in this day and age that if they are dating, it's likely they are sexually active and so one of them is committing a crime.
It's not surprising that she seems more mature, as women do mature earlier than what guys do (it's a fact, get over it)... the question is, whilst you seem keen, you haven't asked her as yet, but asked for a public opinion on here - which would indicate that you care what the public perception would be about you dating a 17-year old. Can you handle that? Would she be able to handle that, and would you want her to endure the public scrutiny of whether she may or may not be sexually active with a guy 11-years her senior? Also, personalities don't have to match for a couple to thrive and flourish in their relationship... some of the most loving couples I know have their yin and yang and that's what makes it successful.0
Wait until she is 18. If she's as wonderful as you say, she is worth waiting a few months for.0
She's not even legal.. you're dating a teenager. Wait till she gets out of the teen years and hits her twenties. Dont be a perv. let her date someone her own age. Dont be selfish lol And if you get her pregnant you're going to look like a child molester.. gross.0
What Guys Said 4
Obviously you don't have to wait till she's 18 so go for it.
Based on female opinions you're expected to wait for her to turn 18, which is bullshit (it's legal in the UK). In the meantime another dude could get her and you wouldn't forgive yourself for years. On the other hand, if you try it with her you will get the best idea if you belong together, cause age difference can truly be a great obstacle.
Good luck :)0
Love knows no age and knows no color somebody told me that years ago and it should speak to everyone.
So yes go for it.0
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