So I have been dating this guy for the last couple of months and things have been going good. But they were always on his terms. Like we would hang out when he wanted and he would text first everyday... So this last week we finally got into a relationship. And then yesterday he called and asked if i wanted to do something and i said yes and he said that he would call me when he got home.
so the hours just went by and finally at 8pm he said that he just barey got home and that the kids wanted him to watch a movie with them and can we hang out tomorrow night. I told him I wasn't able too because of work and that i wish he would have said somehing, because i had something else i could have done and he replies with "sorry babe xoxoxo" I responded with , there is no reason to be sorry i understand life is busy and i said that no matter what we would always be friends and that i hope he has a good night and he responds with just "k". I was so hurt because first why wouldn't he invite me to watch a movie with him and the girls they love me and second why the short answer. and im just exhausted form waiting around for him to want to hang out. so i responded with "I gave you the opprtunity to give u the friend card mutiple times why couldnt u just be honest with me. why would u do that to yourself. Is it because im your sisters best friend, take care
" and he responds with "you too" I didn't know what to say so i blocked his number i know i should just been chill like i always am, but if he doesn't wanna be around me or care about me like that, why lead me on? im just torn over this and am not sure what to do, any advice?
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As a mom, the balancing act between priorities can be very delicate. Nonetheless, when I finally do let my BF meet my kid, it should open up new ways to spend time with him. If you have met the kids and they like you, his actions that night are suspect.
I don't like that he didn't respond to your friends text appropriately. At all. There was no denial, no reassurances... you have every right to be hurt and confused.
This might be the best time to "delete and retreat" as I like to call it. You deserve better, and you deserve answers.1