I have been hanging out with this white guy, I really like I think he's cute, funny etc., but suddenly he stop coming over and he messaged me saying " He's Scared" ? But he told me that he likes me a lot and still like me. My question is why is he scared? What makes him scared? And he is scared of me? if he likes me why won't he act like it? Because I really like him. I don't understand and in am confused
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Nothing at all.
A woman is scary sometimes, but never her skin color.
You want to ask him what specifically he's scared of. A lot of the time it's not you at all. Guys get scared of their feelings sometimes if their head says stay free and their heart (or their penis) says full speed ahead.
If he's scared of melanin, he's a shallow pussy and he's not worth wasting your time with.
That said, if you hang out with a bunch of gangbusters or thugged out types, he might be scared of that. If his or your relatives don't like race mixing, and said something (been known to happen in all races) that could do it too.
There are just too many possibilities for guessing. Ask him.1