I finally got my first boyfriend. We had made it official early Decemeber, and started talking in October. We met online. I dates in the past, but it never turned into anything more, and all those guys were jerks. My boyfriend now, treats me the way I deserve to be treated.
But after my mom highlighted her concerns, and I know them too, cause they concern me, and I have discussed it with my boyfriend, I just keep worrying if I am in the right relationship. He's an amazing good guy, but he doesn't drive often, which he is working on, eats like caveman, has no manners (which I have been trying to teach him, which isn't my job), and he has no job and lives at home to help his 22 year old brother who is autistic. I understand he had a rough time growing up.
(*Please note I have a question before this asking, how long I should give him to change things around.)
I'm nervous, I love him, he loves me, I am literally his whole world, his days are better with me - This honestly scares me the most now more than ever cause he doesn't have much of a life outside of me. And I don't want to hurt him whatever I decide but I am really scared to be single and alone again. I don't like it, I hate the feeling of loneliness and losing the comfort and affection of a boyfriend. Really no one has ever treated me so well as my current boyfriend.)
Please help, any tips or suggestions would be a great help!
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In a way, you answered your own question. He treats you very well and you've never had that before. You're worries that if the relationship ends, no one else will treat you like that. That's normal.
Also, reading to the other answer, it's good that you're confident that any guy would be lucky to have you. Again though, you're worried that no one else would ever see that. Again, that's normal.0