Like if a girl asks a guy out but he doesn't like her because she's fat, should he tell her that he finds her weight unattractive? Or should he make something up to avoid hurting her feelings?
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Honest is the best policy becuase you don't wnat to lead her on. Just be polit when rejecting her don't say oh i don't want to go out with you ebcuase i find your weight aunatrtive, instead say,
1) Sorry, I really am, but I am just too busy (or i'm not ready) to be in a relationship right now
2) look, i don't really think this would work out. maybe we should just date other people. ok? im sorry.
3) we're really different, i dont think it would last too long. can we stay the way we are now?
4) i think its sweet that you like me, but i don't really feel the same way. Im sorry. are we OK?
Maybe not Three. Anyway I hope this was helpful.1