I drune texted a guy I've been seeing for 3 months that I don't understand where things are going between us sometimes. I know how stupid it was but I was really drunk. Anyways he made me feel really bad about it and said the text upset him. He said it made me look like I need to be in control of how things are going and like I need attention. I'm trying to understand but can someone please enlighten me?
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I think this is his way of trying to avoid the question because he doesn't want things to go further. If you are putting out , he probably wants to continue to enjoy that without commitment.
If a relationship is what you want.. I don't think you'd have one with him.
He isn't being honest.
You don't keep things at a stand still forever.
Three months is more than enough time to at least give you an answer0