You claim that you prefer guys with good personalities over good looks yet you drool over rich and famous male celebrities in high school you chase after the hunky athletic douchebags. If what you say is true then why don't I see hot models dating nerds or the "unattractive" guys with good personalities huh? If what you say is true then why do all the pretty girls date guys with six pack abs rather than the "nice" guy with a big belly and short height huh? You are shallow liars you say that you go for guys according to their personality but I don't see that in public, I see hot girls prancing around with their muscular boyfriends who own expensive cars and wear all the expensive clothing labels. I am yet to see a guy with a good personality but bad looks have a hot girlfriend. You just say that you prefer a good personality over good looks to mask your shallowness.
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I'm not sure I apply to your question but I personally couldn't be in a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to. But if the guy I'm dating has got a bad personality the attraction goes away just like that.
I've dated guys in the past that I didn't really think were my type but I felt attracted to after getting to know them a bit. And vice versa.
So yes, personality really is that important. If a guy has got both? Great. If he doesn't? The one with the great personality will have the relationship that lasts.
Thing is you can't force attraction, it's not something you can control so you can't really be mad at someone if they're not feeling it.0