What are your views of... Lets say a four year age difference?

So I've been asking around and getting a lot of really mixed responses on this topic. Is that age difference ok for you? Why or why not?

*I'm sorry anons*


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Most Helpful Girl

  • It depends very much what the age of the younger party is. 16 and 20 is... not 100% okay. 20 and 24 is fine. 50 and 54 is fine.

    I wouldn't date 4 years younger but I would date 4 years older.

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What Guys Said 4

  • You are 18 - 18 and 14 totally dodgy, 18 and 22 a little bit. Teenage years age diff much more pronounced. Up to 16 no more than a year - 16 to 19 no more than two years

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  • 4 years is too large for me, but I don't think it's large enough to be weird. That would probably be over 8 years difference or something.

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    • I know a lot of people with 10 and 20 year differences

  • 80 and 84 is fine
    81 and 85 is fine
    20 and 24 is fine
    14 and 18 is not fine

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  • I am 13 years younger than my girlfriend

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What Girls Said 4

  • I really think that 4 years is kinda a large age gap, but it really depends how old they are. If they are still in school or at in their 20s, I believe that 4 years age differences are kinda a big gap considering 4 years would be a fifth of their lifetime? But if they are older than that, then I think it's fine because I mean their older and 4 years isn't as big of a fraction of their lifetime.

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  • I think four years OLDER is fine. I'm dating someone 8 years older than me. I can't imagine dating someone 4 years younger than me... he would still be over 18 but... I don't know if he would be mature enough for me.

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  • 20 21 and 24 is fine
    24 and 19 is fine
    18 and 24 is fine
    20 and 22 is fine
    22 and 24 is fine
    17 and 19 I don't think is fine
    17 and 23 is not fine

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    • Why is 19 and 17 not ok?

    • ah it just seems like it would be to big of age gap because say what if that person had there birthday and that person turned 20 and the other was still 17 then that might not be ok

    • But that person would have their birthday eventually too

  • I think it is fine! My man is 5 years older than I am.

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