So I'm about to turn 18 and I met this really great nice guy but the issue is for one he is 12 years older and he has a child. He has even offered to let me stay with him while I go to college which is much closer to his house then mine. What do you think I should do go for it or leave the whole thing alone?
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12 years age difference isn't that big of a deal if you are 30 and he's 42 but at your age, you shouldn't get involved with someone that much older. I mean you have to think about it like this, why is this grown man scoping the local high schools for a date? He may be a sex offender in disguise. At your age I would stick to guys no older than 5 years because then you will at least be more on the same maturity level and waive length. Also, you stated he has a kid. Are you ready to be a mom? You need to be young and free and enjoy your time at college!2