I've been seeing this guy and I'm afraid of what he'll think of me when I tell him I've never been in a relationship but I'm not a virgin. I don't want him to think I'm easy, because I haven't been with anyone for over three months now.
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I am not looking to slut shame anyone, but I would lose respect for a girl that told me she had sex outside of a relationship. That conflicts heavily with the values that I have regarding sex. While I don't require a woman to be a virgin, I do believe that sex is something that should only be done by people that love each other. I know not everyone will agree with me on that, but it is important to me. As soon as a girls says she has had a friends with benefits , or a one night stand I write her of as a possible relationship.3