I mean not with others but to myself. Like saying this to myself- 'he is an a$$ who doesn't deserve me' or 'he is very egoistic'(yes he really is) something like that...
Will it help me getting over him?
If not, what to do to get over him?
- Yes it'll helpVote A
- No. it won'tVote B
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It only helps you pretend that you are over him whilst you aren't in fact. If I'm not mistaken I can read in your post that you still love or care about him. When you will start thinking or saying such things you will eventually start acting like it (so you do the same to him as he did to you). First of all you should consider if he is worth all the time thinking about. Why would you spend your time thinking about him when there are so many other things to do which help you get on with your life? Secondly you shouldn't treat him the way he treated you. I know you must feel angry, tired and sad about it but revenge will only bring guilt (if you still love him) so you will end up feeling more bad about the whole thing than before. All of this prevents you from moving on. If you really want to forget about him, try and do things you like and pick up some old hobbies which you haven't practiced during your relationship. Not focussing on him, but on the positive things in life will help you move on in a far better way in the long term! Goodluck.0