So my work sometimes keeps me pretty busy, so I rarely have time to date or anything. But I'm back in Canada for a while, and I felt like jumping back in and curing my dry spell. When it comes to dating, the two things that work against me right off the bat would be my height and race. As a 5'5 guy, there aren't a lot of options for me, as it seems like even short girls want a tall towering guy these days. Actually I was just reading a question on here about the height of girls current boyfriends, and most were pretty tall, even amongst the girls who are very short. So that's the first thing
Second thing that seems to be a bit of setback is my race. I wouldn't change it if I could, because I love my heritage and the way I look overall, but I do pay attention to a lot of the stuff being released by dating sites and such, like how black guys are the least likely to get responses back and all that. Also the last time I was in college, I found it really difficult to attract college black women, as many of them dated interracially exclusively... so I'm kinda lost as to who I should pursue.
So let me know what the best ways a guy like myself can attract you personally, as it will give me some ideas that I can incorporate while I'm out with my friends over the next few days. Historically, I was never really the guy who made girls wet, if you know what I mean lol... because im not a jock, athlete or anything like thar, but I'm usually pleasant to be around, and I've got a very big sense if humor. Just looking to add some extra flavor here. Cheers
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Well bare in mind I've never really dated but I from being on this site I've noticed that there's a lot of questions about guys complaining about being friend zoned and girls trying to get their fuck buddies to fall in love with them.
So that tells me that girls are more likely to be in love with their fuck buddies than their friends. I suppose you could go the classic "dating" approach but if you're too slow to escalate then they lose interest.
So this might sound bad but I think you should just approach a bunch of girls and try to get someone who is ok with a casual friends with benefits sort of thing and then progress it to a real relationship. Sure you will probably get a bunch of no's but once you get a yes you're golden. It's better than investing g a bunch of time into one girl and having her string you along for months.
Focus on apoaching short girls 5ft-5'3
as I said I've never dated so take my advice with a grain of salt. Just based on my observations and what I read on this sight it seems the slow approach is the worst for a guy to take :/1
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