We love each other. I know she loves me. She is absolutelly honest to me, always. Yet, there's a guy in our school, who is actually a friend of mine, who she has a crush on. It's not just a little crush.
She told me that if I wouldn't talk to her before, she would be in love with him. He is way better than me, he is just her type of guy, he is possessive, calm, great music taste, gets angry when he must, cold, etc. She ignores me when we are with him, she gets really happy when she sees him and talks to him. She even dreamed she kissed him a few weeks ago.
What should I do? It's worrying me a hell lot. I love her, a lot. Really.
- Talk to her.Vote A
- Break up.Vote B
- Ignore it.Vote C
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TBH, this really only shows how good your relationship is! I know it sounds backwards but if she feels confident and comfortable enough to share this kind of thing with you- it's most likely a good sign!
Remember, she loves you. And even if that guy was on the scene earlier and she would've gone out with him. She hasn't. She picked YOU. And she's not leaving you either!!
Don't feel like you have to compete with this guy- that's the worst thing you could do. If you can show her that even though this guy may be 'competition' with you, you don't need to worry because you love each other, she'll respect that. Be yourself and the best you can be.
Not that I doubt you give her attention but, maybe, you should show her extra affection- just to unconsciously remind her why you're way better! ;)
Basically, don't let this crush get in the way of your relationship, your friendship, their friendship and all the good things! Be alert, but not controlling. Tell her your concerns and explain why. She loves you so she'll understand!!
Hope this helped! Good Luck!