I met this guy about 2 months ago. He's a really nice guy and does flirt at times. He seems like the type that would be awesome to hang out with. he's very respectful and attentive. I've heard him say that he is too busy to be in a relationship. recently I've texted him twice and he hasn't responded. Should I just forget about him or how can I hang out with him, without him thinking that I am interested in him?
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Your acting like your interested in him.. but your not? If he's not replying to your texts, maybe he is busy or he is just playing the dating game.. you know.. the one where you pretend to have a life so the girl thinks your interesting.. lots of guys do that. and lots of girls do that too..
When hanging out with him, he won't be interested in you if you find out what annoys or turns him off and do that. If being pretentious turns him off, then be like that.. and he won't try to date your or whatnot... there is a fine line between "respectful and attentive" and the next step in a relationship.. He seems like one of those nice guys who is trying his hand at dating and doesn't want to be in the friend zone.. that's why he didn't reply to your texts.. he doesn't want you thinking "oh he's obsessed with me and he has nothing much going on".. you might not be thinking that but subconsciously that's exactly what goes on in girls' heads..
You don't want him interested him in you, then literally turn him off.. but don't straight up ask him what turns him off or on.. find out.. be slick.