Hello, I'm 21 years old and never had a girlfriend.
Last Saturday, while I was doing my workout at the gym I met a girl at that place and tried to introduce myself (which usually I can't do it, since I'm shy).
Since then, I did not see her anymore and keep thinking about her for a week. As being a shy person, I am unable to make a move, and since I never had a girlfriend I don't know if it is supposed to be love.
She will probably show up at the gym tomorrow. Now, I'm facing a difficult situation. I don't know what to do, since I lack of confidence and can't do the move.
I don't even know if I'm in love with her. I'm confused.
Will I stay single forever, and will miss something in my life?
or would you help me out to overcome such issue?
I'm sure that you guys have some good advices to such a person like me who has failed miserably till now.
Please, tell me what to do. Thanks in advance
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Well, there are various creative ways you could think of to let her know how you feel in a way you might not be too afraid to do, but if that's absolutely not an option, then you need to start working on your confidence. Start with smaller things just outside your comfort zone and work your way up at your own pace. You'll notice that the more you move out of your comfort zone, the bigger your comfort zone becomes and the more you'll find yourself able to do. If you do your best you should eventually be able to ask a girl out. :)0