I am 22 and I've never been in a relationship the times I've dates It has been short term dating. Last night I went on a sate with a guy and it went amazing and he wanted to meet again but I'm going away for five days so I won't see him for a week. We were talking about movies and what we wanted to see and we both wanted to see American sniper so he said we can watch it together and I said of course. He held around me as we talked and it was great date I sensed he was interested
I went home and texted him thank you and that I wanted to see him again and he replies I'm glad , me too.
Now here is the silly part. I don't want to ruin this. I've been thinking about him all day and I'm happy. I am afraid it will go away and not last long so I won't let my self have hope. I don't want to jinx this.
I thought id contact him when I'm back again cause it was a lot of fun.
Why am I so afraid ? What can I do to relax ?
by the way he hasn't been in a relationship before he is 25
Most Helpful Girl
Don't over think this or you will find in the end That-----I ruined this. Just take control of this newbie situation and tell yourself: It went amazing.
You got a text from him to you pushing a button on your own end and he told you "I'm glad, me too.' With this being said, you don't want to appear here, dear, that you are clinging to the cell and just Coaxing him to Invite you out... let him get in touch with you as to When is good for him and What may be good for you as well.
You are feeling excited and you have these butterflies in your tummy because you see that the First date could lead to a perfect Mate. Just go slow with the flow, let him do the chasing and you remain cool headed and be this juicy apple at the top of the tree, hardest to get.
Don't let him sense that you are too over anxious or hep on wanting to be with him. This may backfire and he could suddenly grow cold duck feet and then, I would have to say it isn't a 'Jinx,' but Fate that would have stopped the date mate in its tracks.
Good luck. xx0
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