Does acting like you don't care make a guy like you more?

Does this work in dating? I am kinna new to it again and wonder if you find this to be true.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • yes id say so but not in a way that u don't talk to him and act like u don't care if he dies lol but act like u don't care in a sense that ur world really doesn't revolve around him.. if he calls great if he doesn't that's also great.. don't show him that you are desperate for his attention. works for me.

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What Guys Said 29

  • There's only three things that attracts guys about a young lady or women

    1. respect- respect for herself and respect for others.

    2. personality- she must not have a perfect personality but a good personality someone that can really impress people about herself. a good personality that she could be really confident about herself and about opinions that she do.

    3 sense of humor- a person that can make guys laugh and A person that can always put a smile on there face that's type of person that they need around them. A person that even when they really in a bad mood. She can cheer Him up or on a bad moments that she can always put a smile on there face just by her smile at them could change there day. And that best advice that I can give you.

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  • kinda like playing hard to get in a way? actually it can be different from playing hard to get but i'll just mix it with that category. it depends on the guy, some guys will see the challenge and continue pursuing, others will get frustrated and give up, and some others will see no hope and move on quick. pick the right guy.

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  • Nope , that just tells me she's not interested and I move on.
    If he's interested , he's interested either way. Be a tease but don't be a stone that's what I think.

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  • No, for me that makes me lose interest fast, because i always assume the girl thinks she is to good for me or something along those lines, even if there is a chance she is just playing hard to get, im not gonna waste my time when the risk is very high that it won't matter.

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  • No. That makes him move on to another woman. Don't play games they are stupid and have never worked out in the long run. It's the games that usually are the foundation for an eventual break-up.

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  • If a man is blindly infatuated with you then it will make him chase harder, if he has a normal level of attraction or interest though it will be a signal to him that you are not interested, and he will likely back off.

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  • No, feigning disinterest just conveys you aren't interested. Flirting, well that's just a whole different story, isn't it?

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  • If she gives the impression that she's uninterested then I'd eventually become uninterested. Just don't do it

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  • It will backfire , most women are cold & indifferent ( at best ! ) towards men , most guys will place you into the " Not Interested - Don't bother category " & forget about you.

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  • Yeah I think it would. I know that I like a challenge in a woman. So if we had like a little spark or I like her and she's trying to play hard to get that's when I get real interested I'm all in on this game then. I think most guys are like this but some guys like for the girls to meet them 50/50 or else he's not beat for the chase but yeah it could work lol

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  • no, it makes us think u aren't interested so we stop trying.

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  • ask yourself this, "do I really wanna be with someone who is only interested in me because I appear indefferent?" you're only gonna attract someone who likes to chase and doesn't really likeYOU.

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  • Lol it will frustrate him probs and annoy him

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  • Yes, it call playing hard to get. It work for the most part, guy love the chase.

    But at some point he will get tired and move on, you need to be careful.

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  • No, not at all. You'll give him the wrong impression and lose him.

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    • Yeah! I think that's what happned to me! @maxemeister

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    • @maxemeister awh! Thanks! Yeah! I'm so I'm 20... and the guy I think i ruined it with is the ONLY guy I've ever been attracted too! Like its the craziest feeling I have for this guy! But, I don't know if there's a way I could fix it? Any ideas?

    • @Hopeless_romamtic if you ever want another chance, this time you have to take the initiative and ask him out yourself. You can't convince him to come crawling back

  • No not for guys but acting like we don't care attracts girls😉

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  • in my opinion it makes a girl seem arrogant and bitchy.
    if you are intrested don't be fake, don't make me chase if i don't have a chance etc

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  • No. It would make me feel like you're not into me. So why should I deal with someone who's not worth my time? It would backfire if it were on me

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  • No it turns me off

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  • absolutely not for me!!!

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  • I think actually the opposite applies more. Just don't smother.

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  • Sort of...

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  • Won't work, if anything he'll just think you're not interested at all.

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  • Absolutely fucking not. That is how you get a dick and a broken heart

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  • Let me start off by telling you generally no it doesn't work. For me, INSTANT turn off. DONE! I have a 0 tolerance policy towards mind games like that. You are limiting your options when you play childish games like that and you will regret it one way or another.

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  • No, that doesn't work on men the way it does on women.

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  • No. U can do that until he find a better one than you. Once he got it he will runaway from you later.

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  • Not for me, I've had girls do this and I found another girl who showed she liked me.

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What Girls Said 10

  • Unfortunately, it works for both genders.

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  • Nooooooo, it's the absence of a leash & collar that makes them more bold

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  • Tbh I thought I was great at acting like I didn't care! Until I found out that hiding my blushing face in my locker was not playing hard to get. I think naturally vivacious, real, genuine, and confident girl are best. I don't think it's necessary for you to hide interest otherwise it'll show like there's no interest at all. If I like a guy, I wouldn't want him to glare at me then run away every time I glance at him. Cute smiles, compliments, handsomeness...

    Gah.

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  • Guys are pretty literal, so if you say you don't care they actually think you don't care

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  • From experience, if he has any interest in you and feels like you are distancing yourself from him, then yea he will make effort.

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  • maybe at first but eventually they'll just give up

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  • What if it's reversed like the guy acts like he doesn't care... I'd say it's pretty rude!

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  • My experience it makes them feel kinda bad about themselves.

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  • I wonder this as well.

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  • It all depends if on the guy and if the girl can pull it off.

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