Just wandering if you have ever let someone down nicely instead of being really mean cause you didn't want to date them I actually said to one guy that I didn't want to date him it hurt his feelings really He was like why not?
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uh nah... talking to a guy like that isn't ideal=/
u can't be like, i dont wanna date u.
if u dont wanna date him, just say you're not ready for a relationship although you're flattered by him asking [if he did]. thing is, most men r terrified to ask, and having to risk looking rejection in the face isn't easy. if he took that step of asking u out [especially if he wasn't confident], then it usually means something, so make sure u dont shut a man down in a way that makes him feel absolutely shattered.3