So I've been unsuccessful in finding a girl for over 15 years now. Never had a girlfriend, kissed or had sex. Now I feel like giving up because it's too disappointing and literally depressing. Some guys are good enough to get a girl everyday but for me it will be almost 2 decades now since I started liking them. I'm at the point where I don't even care about sex and willing to date an asexual girl just so I can't be lonely anymore. I mean I'm probably 3 to 5 out of 10 looks wise and I'm of a below average height (5'8) with an okay muscle tone but I've still been told by other guys that I dress well plus my hygiene is pretty good too. My social skills are alright too so I'm just not sure why none of the girls are interested in me. They don't even talk to me or look at me but almost all my friends get attention from all kinds of girls. I don't know, I'm not as upset as I used to be but I'm just not sure what's wrong with me. Even though this sounds stupid, I feel like plastic surgery would do wonders. Lol if anyone I know reads this, they will make fun of me for the longest time but I'm really not sure what's wrong with me. I'm not a horrible guy or anything, even though no one believes they are so I don't know why no one is ever into me. I feel like giving up but I don't know what to do next. It's not easy to try getting rid of girls out of your head, no matter how hard you try. I've tried it before.
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look, i've seen many guys who look ugly, guys who don't smell good, guys who ain't so smart, shy guys, and totally not funny or good looking guys that have girlfriends. This is never a problem on getting a girl, since everyone fits somewhere. I'm not sure what kind of a girl you're searching for (?), but if you'd put much self-confidence, and invite someone out once and twice, until she accepts to go out with you, i believe that she'll like you (based on your description about your personality).
p. s never tell a girl that you're 27 and you never kissed or had sex, cause we live in a period when this happenes during the adolescence to most of people, and if you give them this information, it might freak them out, it might make them think that something is so wrong with you.. which seemingly is not true at all.. just lie to them about your past experiences (if u disscuss about this), and things are going to be good. Oh, and, make sure with who u're staying with, maybe your friends have stalked you..0
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