Im an Escort . Its nothing i've EVER been ashamed of , but for some reason all the dudes i've dated seem to have an problem with it ( yes I tell because I don't like secrets in a relationship ) . So i've been dating this dude and I really like him i've been holding back on the Escort part . Should I tell him ?
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for you to be an escort, you really dont seem to understand men very much. ain't too many men that would want to wife a hoe. if you are an escort, prostitute, slut, etc you are severely limiting your options of being taken seriously in a relationship with a man. you may have lots of paying customers but very few men who want to do more than sleep with you and actually be in an emotional relationship with you. im not here to tell you to be ashamed of what you do, but you may want to reevaluate the *I dont like keeping secrets* thing. the simple fact, as you well know, is that men do not love hoes. if you want to keep a relationship then you need to not tell a guy that you used to sell your body. why do you feel that's necessary to tell him? it certainly won't make him think any more highly of you, it doesn't benefit you in anyway. he will thank you for your honesty and move on to another woman. so the way I see it you have two choices: continue being honest about your escort past and watch men keep leaving you, or keep it to yourself so you can have a chance at a decent normal relationship1