What I mean is the following: when a girl is with a guy thats average looking (or below average looking) is it because the guys that she really wants are unavailable? i.e. attractive guys are less likely to commit or have more options available, or possibly feel that they can do better, so the girl settles for a source of stability. Im only asking because no one wants to be with somebody that they have genuine feelings for, knowing that they're what the other person settled for. I've heard so many girls talk about the importane of passion...its depressing knowing that you could never elicit those feelings from someone you really have feelings for and that she secretly does want that "hot" guy that for whatever reason is unavailable.
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I had an ugly boyfriend. People used to wonder all the time why I was with him but they never could understand. My ex was different, he wasn't one of those lame ass ugly guys, he had other things to offer than being a pretty boy. he was really masculine, highly respected in his community, pretty popular, very fun, treated me right, and had a huge dick. so just by looking at us together, if you didn't know us you would think I was settling but actually I was very happy to be with him. Could I have gotten a better looking guy? Yeah. Could I have gotten another guy that made me feel like he did? Hmmm... lol Im just saying my ex wasn't perfect but he had personality, a great sex game and was super confident and popular and that combination can make a guy very sexy. an ugly guy has to be spectacular to make up for his poor looks if he wants a gf who isn't ugly and doesn't have to settle0