I've been in a long distance relationship for two months. On our one month anniversary he was "busy" and couldn't talk. He didn't say Happy Anniversary or I love you, just "Can't talk today. I will tomorrow". I felt kind of uneasy because he said he was going to talk with his ex the day before.
On our Two month anniversary he did say Happy Anniversary. I really wanted to talk to him but once again, he was busy. This was four days ago.
Last night I was texting him goodnight and he blew up. He got angry and told me to leave him alone. I said "I'm srry." He replied with "I'm a busy guy. I need to do my hw" "Alright. Ttyl?" I sent. "Whatever. >:(" Was his last message. I didn't respond because I felt hurt.
I'm not clingy and I don't check in on him after every minute. I try my best to make this relationship work. That wasn't our first argument either. He starts them and blames me. Afterwards he gets upset and makes it seem like the whole thing was my fault. But maybe I'm trying to hard. Maybe I should end it. I don't know.
What do you guys think?
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Most Helpful Girl
I would. I've been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now and my girlfriend doesn't always have time to talk; there are times when she goes like four or five days without talking to me but she always comes around and so we're still going strong. We've never had an argument before. But your boyfriend? What he's doing is messed up. Your boyfriend may be busy, and, honestly, we all are, but that gives him no right to pin his anger down on you like that. Don't worry, girl. There are tons of other fish in the sea who, instead of fighting WITH you, would rather fight FOR you! (:1