So I took this girl out last week and it went great and we ended up kissing and she suggested a 2nd date. she text me the other day to see what I was up to on the weekend or if I was free, I said I couldn't do this weekend, but maybe next week, she said she was busy and had plans so I suggested next weekend but she hasn't replied and its now been 3 days, what's going on??
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First of all, you don't want to say things like, "maybe next week." Give her a specific day and time. (If she's busy at that time and she's interested, she'll give you a day/time that will work for her.) You don't want to use the word "maybe" on someone you're DEFINITELY interested in.
Second, when you said, "maybe next week" and she told you she was busy and had plans... how did she know she was busy? You never gave her a day and time, did you? She was telling you in the language of Womanese that she wasn't interested in another date.
Women will rarely tell you in plain English that they're not interested. When a woman's actions and words aren't consistent, you have a problem. Women who are interested will respond to you when you contact them, they'll say "yes" when you ask them out, and they don't cancel dates. Women who aren't interested act like the girl who stopped responding to you. My advice is to delete her phone number and save your time and energy for a girl who is actually interested in you.1