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I choose to be single right now to focus on establishing my business, spiritual development, enjoying the world, reconnecting with old friends and making new ones, being fit/healthy, reinventing myself, healing, and just living life.
When you find the right guy who says all of that has to stop?
Well when I find the right guy he won't try to stop or change me :). I spent the last 4 years of my life wasting my time in relationships that have left me emotionally, mentally, and spiritually drained and at this point I don't have the energy for one. I have to build that up again before I consider being in a relationship and balance other aspects of my life
Ah I see, I'm sorry things haven't worked out for you in the past but it's impressive that you've decided to handle business before you continue to date someone
Thanks I should have been doing this before but I had to learn from my mistakes and that is why I turned over a new leaf and have a different perspective on life.
I have limited experience with relationships. I had an unstable childhood even in high school and I didn't want to commit to someone I really liked and set us both up for heartbreak. It was a lonely choice, but I don't regret it. After graduating, I started full-time school and work, so I haven't had the chance to meet anyone. I'd like to focus on my education, so I'm not going to even attempt dating anyone at this point unless I find the right person.
Self esteem, I think I am really unattractive. I'm getting better, I'm starting to not believe that any more but these image issues have long affected my confidence with girls.
Also, right now there isn't anyone I really like so I would rather be on my own than with someone just to not feel lonely.
Also, in the past anyone I did like never liked me back.
I'm introvert and shy.
Dumb socially.
I take too much time to be comfortable.
I am skinny and below average looking at best.
Too nice... always either friendzoned or brotherzoned. Especially borhterzoned. I've made a lot of sisters -_-
... and when I got proposed I rejected because I liked someone else, hence I'm single! :p
When my bf of almost 4 years broke up with me I was hurt and confused. I stayed single for 3 years until I felt ready to trust and open my heart again. During that time I worked on becoming more confident and loving myself. I grew into who I am and realized what I want by just focusing on me.
Thats one of the hardest parts of being single, focusing and rebuilding yourself... From the damages 😒
E: my antisocial behavior.
it's really hard to find a nice guy to date when you rarely leave the house. I haven't met anyone new in nearly 3 years. ;/
Why do you stay soo isolated if I may ask?
I don't know, anxiety issues. I'm planning to get out as soon as if warms up enough though. (:
Well as long as you get out and meet new people then it's a start. And don't just say you'll do it cuz talk is cheap! Actually do it!
lol, I know!
People tell me im single and can't find someone cause i hookup to much and too fast. i dont really date , but i dont find the point in struggling to find a date when every guy in college right now doesn't want a relationship. If i can't find someone who wants to be in a relationship then why not have funny hooking up flirting and being single.
Because your a womdn and your reputation is different than guys reps and you should've learned this shit in middle school and high school, you already know when you hook up and sleep with random dudes you become known as a slut around campus. You already know guys gossip to eachother like "yeah bro I hit that ahit last week and the pussy was good" or "her pussy was loose, she prolly had alotta dicks before, that slut" I know this type of talk may seem harsh and unfair but it's the truth and the truth hurts even when you don't wanna hear it. Guys don't really have reps like that, we get labeled as players or pimp or your boy with game. (Food for thought)
Why that irratates my soul i can sleep with as many guys as i want and it doesn't make me no better or no worse than anyone
But that's not the way society sees it and it's not the way guys see it either and you know it, only girls see it your way but other guys and even other women just see you as a person who can't keep her legs closed.. I'm glad IM not a women because you females have a stricter code to live by rhsn us guys. Your suppose to present yourself with class and elegance but when you sleep around and curse and dress with baggy clothes, society sees you as un-lady like and unfit
Simply put I don't like the guys who are into me and the guy I am into (was? ) wasn't into me. At least not to my knowledge. Sooooo
Then let me ask you what type of guys are you into?
there's no set type
Not trying to be rude or anything but it's spelled ''you're'' not ''your'' for your question.''Your'' is used for possesion.
Why do you even care how I spell as if this is a test or a school paper? Dude chill out with the grammar correction I didn't need that, I understsnd that your, ur, you're not trying to be rude but you can't possibly imagine how fuckin annoying that is... It's like me telling you how to put on ur, you're, your shoes or some shit. As long as the shoes land on your feet it shouldn't matter what show you put on first. Hence as long as you can comprehend what I'm trying to say it doesn't matter. I bet you don't fuckin tell Mexicans and Chinese people how to pronounce words or they'd slap you unconscious. And if I seem rude it's because that shit is annoying as fuck and I don't understand why you even wasted time telling me as if I really didn't. Know but thanks anyway PAL!😓😒✌️
Ok, I'm perfectly fine with that. I'll be aware of it next time. Nevertheless, all I'm trying to say is that regardless of what your point is (in general, not only for you) you should try to make it as clear and as good as possible. I realize that this is a simple website it's not a world leader conference but still be aware of the fact that if you want to make a statement about whatever, you have to know how to speak, that way people are going to know that you are serious. And by the way, where did the whole thing with the Mexicans and the Chinese come from? Just because I made a simple remark about the spelling you necessarily connect it with violence. I don't think it had any connection. Anyways, I'll have in mind not to coment about this, but you also have in mind that if you speak correctly people are going to pay attention to what you're saying more, it's not about any school papers.
You know what. Why does it matter honestly? If it's not of any Importance? I don't care that I'm single and I wasn't trying to make some big stament, I posted this out of boredom.. Honestly that'so why I come on this site period, to kill spare time. If I was making an important stament thsn I would've chossen my words more carfully and wrote paragraphs with separations and commas and periods and escalation marks and the whole 9 yards.. I had no ide it would catch the eyes and attention people who really take grammer and soling corrections to the heart. That was the whole reason of be bringing up Mexicans in Chinese people because they don't spell correctly or pronounce words correctly in the English language either. People use slang in all over the world in different languages and cultures but I highly doubt you walk around the world messing with them now do you? I've chosen to spell a word differently that it's ususlky spelled but
But you found it soooo bothersom you completely forgot why you came to this post completely and decided to bother me about my spelling lol isn't that funny... It's like me telling you how to put you panties or socks on or how to fold your clothes or even make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, (the correct way)😂 if we were in class or a big meeting I'd whisper thank you in your ear but perhaps you don't really get the depth of how annoying it is... Lol
Anyway I dont care enough anymore to even show you anymore aggression an I'm beginning to feel like an asshole towards you so I apologize for my rude language and aggression towards you, I'll keep in mind to make sure I check my grammer before posting next time and thanks for the heads up. Have a nice day.
Yeah, it's better to just forget about it. I'm sorry if I made you mad or annoyed, it wasn't my original thought. I hope you find the solution to whatever you are looking for. Have a nice day too.
Lol. Grammar junkie hah
@mrlion: Dude, chill. She said she wasn't trying to be rude. She's trying to help you out. Your long winded response was completely unnecessary. Just take the correction and move on.
@mrlion : And also... you definitely care about being single. Example of not caring is regardless of being bored, or not, you wouldn't go online and post a question regarding this. You'd literally carry on and no care and not ask anyone as to why they're single.
I don't care if I'm single. I don't care because I don't ask questions regarding it. See? That's not caring. What you're doing is saving face.
I want to wait till college, I have this crush but if it doesn't work out them im sticking to my original plan. I also don't really trust some guys because of past experiences.
I work in retail and have no friends except for those at work. So no life and no friends lol. Also I don't trust ANYONE. I have tried before but I just can't trust anyone, I don't know why I just can't.
Lol what do people do to you that makes you deem them untrustworthy?
That's the problem. They don't do anything to make themselves untrustworthy. Dude I don't even trust my own mother.
Someone must've screwed you over so bad at one point in your life that it's causing to always look over your shoulder
Yeah they did. But I don't look over my shoulder. I look at the windows next to me to see what's behind me lol.
no it's just that i'm not interested in seeing anyone right now, and guys that i'm interested in never seem to be interested in me, so yeah lol
Because i'm dark black and I get called a burnt African
Your surrounding youself with the wrong type of ladies, I know a lot of ladies like black guys. Do a search on this site and see how many ladies wanna date, sleep with or even be around black people, I'm black to by the way
Thanks man. My self esteem if pretty low because I get made fun of for it, but I'll keep my head up.
I date but I don't feel the need to rush in with anyone. I'd rather sort a few things out rather than to be unprepared:)
I'm single because I don't think I would be able to handle a reletionship and I'm single because people who are specilneeds with mental health have a hard time with relationships so that's why I'm single
It's my line of work; I travel too much, and it requires a lot of time. I wouldn't be able to give her the time she deserved.
It's hard to maintain a relationship properly with other things requiring time and some people don't understand that. I voted you up:)
:*****
I'm not tall, handsome, well built, muscular, or sporty.
I'm also reserved and shy.
It's natural that I don't appeal to girls, and it's kinda upsetting sometimes.
Read what I wrote on the comment above you to that guy, and don't sell yourself short. I'm tall, muscular, well built and work out and have a great job and stuff but I've seen fat short skinny hgly guys pull better girls than I wver could and I don't get how they do it. I just look like this when they walk by me 😨
I'm just single because I'm ugly and unattractive to the female population.
You're only unattractive to the female population because you're putting yourself down and females don't like guys with no self-esteem. That's one thing you must try to reverse confident guys get the girls because they know that their company and they don't need the girl. Just like babies need their mommy a girl doesn't wanna feel like you need her like that. You never to make her feel like she needs you.
Do you see my face? Lol I've never had a serious relationship before because of it, I hardly have any friends that are girls because of it too :$
well, for what it's worth i think ur face is fine. wouldn't stop me from having a friendship.
if u believe attraction is defined by the way u look, then that's a problem. it's better to have a beautiful soul and mind, than a pretty face or body.
I know I shouldn't think that way, it's just that i said that in the heat of the moment, I honestly truly believe that people should go for the personality not for the looks and stuff. That's what I look for in a girl (or a guy too) is his/her personality.
The shameful part is alotta girls go for pretty face boys but their too ashamed to admit the truth to themselves or the world. Their in denial. If an hgly guy goes up to a girl and ask for her number he gets turned doen without her even getting to know him or his thoughts. But if a pretty boy goes and ask than most likely ahes gonna blush and say "um okay!😊" and that pretty boy probably doesn't even know the answer to 3+2. Lol look at it this way, I like to play chess, chess is a board game but it's also a mind game where you hack into people's thoughts like a safe. Trying to get certain girls to date you is almost exactly the same tactic. No bullshit
by the way bro you'd not ugly. That girl justbanANNAz is hot as hell! and almost pratically said your hansom. I talked to her before and she never dropped any hints like that to me lol so that probably means I'm ugly to her.. If you can catch the attention of girls in into than you must be doing better than me. I can't even catch her attention like that smh got me jealous! Shit!!
Shit man really? Wow I guess I'm too tired to realize it (just woke up lol) man c'mon you really think she's attracted to me?
For me, it is a mixture of all of those options. However, I struggle more with A and B--somewhat with low self esteem although I try not to show it when around people.
I have been single for my whole life because I'm unattractive to every guy I have ever liked. :) (That whole life part was overly dramatic because I'm 14) LOL!