You see guys that are unattractive with good looking women all the time and thats because those guys are confident, secure in themselves and know how to behave like a challenge. Confidence and carrying yourself like a man is what is going to be sexy and attractive, not insecurity, or whining and complaining about how no women like you. My advice, focus on yourself, your goals, your plans for your life and just living your life and just being happy. The key is to stop stressing yourself out and looking for a partner. If it’s meant to be you will run across the right person when the time is right. I know this form experience and had to learn the hard way. Check out my takes for further information.
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If all else fails... use this "haven't asked enough girls out", its a method called "shotgunning"... people who think they are undesirable use it. It requires a bit of confidence though, and if you don't have that then you have answered a bit of your own question.
(In my opinion, no one is undesirable, they Present themselves as undesirable)
Let me just say, I work in computers and recall probably the ugliest guy I have ever seen (appearance) and his personality was quite punishing (some ugly looking guys are nice people). He was single for ages but then one day I saw him down the street holding hands with a girl. She wasn't at all attractive looking but he found someone!! And lesson learned for me : seriously, it doesn't matter how ugly you are there is someone out there who will think you're hot.
Probably to most women, but I'm sure there's a girl out there that will find that guy attractive. And why? Because he's not attractive and doesn't come off as friendly or nice to be around? Maybe he doesn't take care of himself either. It might also not have a lot going for him career wise or really doesn't push himself in any way. Those are not attractive qualities.
Some guys just put off a creeper vibe and don't pick up on social cues. They don't know how to behave around women and but oblivious faith in their looks when they ought not to. Other guys are shy and women wish they would overcome it enough to ask them out.
Yes, some guys are universally undesirable.
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i1127.photobucket.com/.../ezgif.com-add-text_2.gif I chose A but it's damn near possible to be undesirable to everyone ^_^
I voted "A."
I do think SOME-a very small percentage of men (I'll estimate 5% here) are undesirable for women. There are some guys hideously disfigured or have severe personality disorders which are not compatible with women.
Asking out girls is a step-But it's just that, a step. This 5% or so will not have one girl to date in their entire lives, regardless of how many girls they ask out.
The same can be said about a tiny portion of women as well.nah i dont think any guy can be universally undesirable.. but some sure do come close. I mean in my current dry spell, i've found myself feeling that way about myself on occasion, hah. But its hard for me to see a guy that absolutely no woman would not desire.
Guys have to make themselves desirable. Unless you were born looking like a young Brad Pitt, you're going to have to put on some work. But even those guys need some type of allure.
No, It's your inability to adapt to changes and also look within yourself.
I vote D: Many haven't done all they can to make themselves attractive to women.
i guess, some of us are totally undesirable to all women no matter our efforts to be nice, polite or gentle, sad but true...
Yes. There could be many reasons. But those men are few and far between.
no, they had ancestors that got them here, so I don't think so
You just aren't talking to enough women. Hell, even HITLER had a girl right up to the end. If Hitler can do it, so can you.
Yea there is some guys that are undesirable
yes sir me :)
You mean like me?
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