I think it's hard to tell if a guy likes you, and girls are easier And my guy friend thinks it's about the same but I don't know I gave him example about how he is extremely nice to me and how he treats me differently than other girls no matter how many people tells me he likes me I am still scared to ask him out because It's hard to tell if he really likes me enough to date. But then he tells me that girls expects guys to ask them out because majority guys does the asking out and if they don't do it they will automatically assume they don't like them but you will never know because some guys doesn't show their feelings like how girls do.
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Here's the thing... based on a majority of situations (I'm not saying ALL), these are generally the results
1) When a girl is interested, she tries to drop hints as much as she can If she is the type to be obvious, well... there you go. But there are many girls who are unsure about the possibility that the guy would like her back, so they would either drop subtle hints and not be obvious... OR she would pretend that she has no interest, may even give the cold shoulder, to keep others from being suspicious of her feelings, which would ultimately convince the guy that there is no interest, probably a bad thing for the girl. So that's my input for the girls part.
2) For many guys nowadays, if they're interested, they would just come out with it and simply ask the girl out. In today's society, people go out on dates without expecting it to last for the future. They just think of the "now". So with this in mind, guys wouldn't feel too hurt if they got rejected if they asked a girl out, since there are "plenty of fish in the sea". However, for those guys who are self-conscious and nervous when it comes to girls, they're more careful with opening up their feelings. These types usually become friends with the girl first. They are no where near being confident that the girl could like him back. These are the guys who would usually be UNKNOWINGLY dropping hints. Constantly being around her, staring at her from afar, or dropping anything that you're doing just to be there for her would automatically register in the girl's mind that you like her.
I'm not sure if it's easy to understand what I'm getting at, but no. I do not agree with that statement.1