Deal breakers for men and women when you meet some one for the first time?

What would be the deal breaker for you to presu getting to know some one better after the first date? I'm not talking physically I mean more like personality wise. The way they think....


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Rude, negative energy, complaining.

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What Guys Said 10

  • Arrogance.

    Over-dependence (relies on me to come up with every date idea, to start and continue every conversation, etc.).

    Over-attachment (needs to be in contact ALL the time).

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  • Rude, kind of a bitch, can not carry a conversation well, maybe some other stuff. But being rude is like instant

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  • They're a bigot. Can't have an intellectual conversations (it doesn't have to be about science or politics).

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  • If she sounds stupid.

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  • Smoking. Frickinn disgusting and smelly

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  • Arrogance.

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  • when they can't keep a convo going...

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  • Her teeth... is a massive deal-breaker

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  • The way they treat others, rudeness, bad energy/vibe (trust your instinct!)

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  • Then expecting me to think of everything to do or talk about.

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What Girls Said 6

  • - If a guy comes off as sexist or racist. Like, if he makes negative, generalising statements about women or ethnic or religious groups.

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    - He treats the waitstaff poorly

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    - He talks over me, interrupts me, or generally seems more caught up in talking about himself than learning about me

    ... he will NEVER hear from me again.

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  • I would not ever pursue a relationship with a guy who is
    1) Self-absorbed
    2) "Too sexual" (as in, obsessed with being dirty/pervy and sex)
    3) Completely vacuous
    4) Can't keep up a conversation (I'm quiet and shy, so if both of us are, it won't work put)
    5) Inherently flirtatious with everybody

    #Dealbreakers

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  • they aren't of my religion, they look down on women, they curse a lot, are late, i catch them lying to me or someone else

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  • If they care that I am not a virgin and are nasty about it, that is a complete deal breaker for me. I want to be with someone who accepts me and loves me for me.

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  • Failure to keep the conversation up
    Mentioning sex

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  • Perverted, mean, downer, sexist, racist, and a lot more probably.

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