So I've been talking to this guy for quite a while and we've gone on a couple dates but it has been a while now (a bit less than a month) since our last date...is there any way I can kind of make it happen without asking him out myself (I initiated stuff on our last date and I don't want to be the one who always initiates).
Is there something I can text him or do that'll make him want to go out with me again? (Btw the date went well last time)
my friend made up this plan but to me seems a little far fetched...she told me to pretend to be drunk and text him saying things like "I have a secret: I want to do stuff with you ;)" but I don't know that seems WAY too weird to do...is it? Or would that work...?
thanks a lot!
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I don't want to sound like a dick, but I probably will. You really should just get over the fact that you don't want to always initiate. You want to go out with him but you're not willing to make a small compromise to keep him? That's absurd. You cannot make anyone do anything by being indirect. They will either do it or you can do it for them. You're the only one you have control over.1
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