So what I'm here to gripe about is one word responses. My example is a recent one which left me perplexed.
Girl: Hey :)
MeGuy: Hi, how are you? That photo of you swimming with the turtle is awesome, where was it?
Thats it... One word. Ignoring the first question. Blunt. No return question, no explanation.. Do you not want to make a conversation flowing? Why such little effort to respond when she said hey first? These responses leave me agitated and bored. Why should I show any more interest when I get responses like this? Yes it happens often! Sorry if this sounded like a rant but how should I be reading into these?
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I'd be agitated and bored too. I'd just stop talking to the person. If I'm interested in someone, I make a point to keep the conversation going, either by asking them questions and answering their questions with enough detail that there's something else they could could me about or share their own personal story about, etc. If I'm not interested, then I don't message them/don't reply, or tell them I'm not interested.
I'm not interested in people who aren't willing to put in effort back. Not worth it.1