I've been on a few dates with this guy - he's nice I like him but there's one thing putting me off. On all our dates he'll buy me a drink or coffee but when we go to eat a meal or do an activity like the zoo or aquarium - I always pay the Bill. Today for example we went for coffee then for a walk. After we decided to go eat - we get the bill and first thing he says is "Shall we split it?" .."I said no I'll pay thinking, surely he's not going to make me pay AGAIN?" But nope, he says "okay".. Am I being over the top? I don't know? I don't mind paying/sharing but I kinda feel like the first 2 or so dates a guy at least pays... Correct me if I'm wrong?
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Ugh. No. I think this guy may be frugal, he may be used to a woman paying, or he believes that you two should foot the bill. I don't know. I'm not "traditional" only when it benefits the vagina, but men are courting US to gain our favor. So why shouldn't they try to many things to get us like paying the bill?
I agree with you. But I wouldn't pay for anything until we're exclusive. I don't mind footing then... even though it's still strange to me.1