Am i the only one that thinks that being in a relationship is too much work? My ex an i dated for 5 years and we broke up about 9 months ago. But now that i think about it i dont see my self in a relationship at keast for the next few years because its too much work. When you have a gf specially ( this would be for men) you have to buy her flowers, take her out to eat, pay for her movie, talk to her in the phone for hours or however long she wants to, surprise her, STOP TALKING TO OTHER THE FEMALE FRIENDS, and of course the biggest thing is argue/fight over simple things or big things.
Im not sure if my ex ruined it for me but right now i feel that way and i would like to know if anyone is feeling the same.
- yes, i feel the same wayVote A
- no, being in a relationship is the best thing.Vote B
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what you describe is a bad relationship and your ex probably ruined it for you a bit.
to avoid this hassle, just stay away from high maintenance princesses that need your undivided attention 24/7.
Once you are with someone that can function perfectly fine on her own and is only with you because you are the icing on the cake, you do not have any of those problems. Trust me.
AND when you are with someone great, those things you mentioned will not feel like chores, but you will actually want to do it out of the goodness of your heart.2