I know what your thinking, this isn't racist or anything just give me a chance to explain. I remrmber I was always the type of guy to attract different races when it come to females but now that I think about it, a lot of them only seemed like they wanted to sleep with me only not date me. I don't know but I've often felt in the pit of my stomach that some of them were ashamed of whst others would think. I'm a really clean guy, well mannered, I speak proper whrn I'm around respectable people such as bossss and family members and I'most definitely a gentlemen but I never understood it. I figured it was because of my body and my looks but that's always been a problem because I refuse to sleep with you or any other women if we won't be a dating couple, fuck that 1 night stand shit!😤 I need to have a partner not a fuck buddy. I mean what is it to some of you other ladies? are you really afraid and ashamed that your friends and family and even strangers will look at you weird like "oh wow she's dating a Black guy", is that it? I'm a pretty strong dude but it often hurts my feelings. I would never change my skin color for anyone in this world or the next but I just need someone to explain it to me in your own words or vote, either way.
- i would sleep with but not date a black guy cuz people judgeVote A
- I would sleep with and date a black who cares what others say or thinkVote B
- I wouldn't do eitherVote C
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I would date a guy based on our physical/mental/emotional/intellctual/spiritual connection though irrespective of his race/colour/culture.
I am white, blonde with green eyes but I have friends from all different backgrounds, races and cultures.
I have a strong character though and if anyone disapproved of me dating a black guy, then they can go and kiss my hairy hide. (It's not really hairy by the way !).
So are you saying that there is still some sort of stigma attached to interracial dating or this is just what you've noticed with you? Any of your friends dating outside their race/culture?2
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