My fiance was asked by someone if he was on a plane and he knew it was about to crash who would he call first and he said his sibliglngs (2 brothers and his parents) I was awkwardly waiting for him to include me in there since you know I'm only about to marry the guy and spend the rest of my life with him but no big deal right? It really stung me that he doesn't think of me as that important when we are about to start our lives together. I have been very short with him since he gave this answer. by the way it wasn't me who asked him this it was a friend of his. I just feel really hurt. My mom said I should have a talk with him about how it hurt my feelings since he is my fiancé we should be able to be open with each other when the other does or says something to hurt us. Thoughts?
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I agree with other man post.
If you are husband and wife you would of been on the plane with him at the time.
You would of been calling your family and he would of been calling his...
And to be frank with you, if you were not on the plane with me, i would of called my mother first. Then you.. Assume I am 25 years old. That is 25 years my mother has been there for me. And you are there for just 1 year?
As a girl you need to understand something very important about Men..
When a boy is a child, when he is hurt. It is his mother who gives him support.
When we are sad, it is our mother who gives us support. When we are scared of the night, again it is our mother who gives us support!!! When i come home with skined up knees, it is Mom who cleans me and kisses the wounds.
A boys Father is teaching him how to become a Man. Stand on your own feet. Make the world your own. Never allow a person to question your Integrity.
Many of you girls will say this is bad. However you all want a real man!!!
As a wife, I want to shair some of my stress with you, but i am no longer a child..
I have good news and bad news for you girls out there.
It is simply this. ( A man will Never love a woman as much as he loves his Mother!) Get over it.. Your son is yours for life!!! I am 55 now and supporting my mother..
Becouse of the new world Womans Lib, you might be just one of three wifes.
My Mother will allways be number one!!!
Enjoy your Sons girls, for they will love you for all there life..1
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