I always feel like the girls I have crushes are too pretty for me. Then I'll see a less attractive girl and feel more comfortable about asking her out. I feel bad because I feel like it's rude to them. It's not that I think they're ugly just not as intimidating. Is it bad to ask them out for this reason. I like they're personality find them attractive enough to date. I also feel like I'd be making them happy because I'm talking to them which also makes me feel like a jerk. Is this wrong? If I would date them I'd be devoted to them and I would never tell them why I really asked them instead of others. My goal would be to make them happy. Is this wrong because of the reason I chose them?
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I think you should have more confidence in yourself (:
If girls you find pretty attractive are coming to you, take that as a compliment and use it as a strength! Understand that if they flirt with you and are showing interest, they want you to talk to them and you don have anything to be afraid of.
I think by dating girls you openly say are lower in attractiveness is okay but the reason behind it is just you bringing yourself down/:
It's great that you see them for their personalities, really. But keep in mind that you don't hae to settle!0
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