(This is pretty long and you only need the first couple lines to understand, the rest is just detail ahaha better if you read it all but you don't have to :) thanks for any help) This guy and I have been talking by textfor quite a while now and we went on a couple dates which went well but after the second he didn't text me or anything so after a couple days I texted him. The messages weren't AT ALL cold but there weren't as many as before. A week later he was texting me a lot and asked if we could Skype (which we didn't cause I was busy)...we kept talking for the rest of the week but Then he stopped talking to me again and isn't even opening the messages I sent him last week, I haven't texted him since and am just waiting now... :/
does he not like me anymore? What's up with it, the dates went really well What could I do to get his attention?
We don't work or go to school together so I pretty much never see him. I don't want to seem desperate and "force" this relationship so I don't want to text him every day and just have him not answer me...
what could I do to have him be interested or ask me out or something?
My friends say I should go to Dunkin donuts (where he works part time) and pretend I didn't know he was working that day but I feel like he might see through that sone others say I should snap him like a bikini pic and then text him saying that wasn't meant for him that I'm just shopping and I wanted my best friends opinion on whether I should get it or not ....I don't know, theyve been giving me a bunch of suggestions but I'd feel weird doing them all
what do you think I should do? Any ideas are great! Thanks!!!
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Definitely do not do what your friends said. This guy could just be busy, or there could be some other girl. Think about it, is there anything you have done that could have put him off? he could have 100,000,000 s of reasons why he would act this way. Maybe someone hacked your relationship with lies. Don't chase him, this will make him feel pressured. Carry on like normal with your life, be nice, be on your best behaviour. Date around (heehee, maybe ask a guy out to go to that place where he works :D), you need to ask yourself how much he means to you. Don't let going after him get in the way of other opportunities! 18 is a young age to be set on one person. Sometimes, people have emotional or relationship problems where being around one person for a long time freaks them out. Maybe he thinks you are too good for him. Maybe he is playing games to try and get you to chase him because he feels you are not that interested in him. If he does not care about you that much, he is not worth the worry.0