We met a week ago and gone out a couple of times, we kissed a couple of times as well, is it ok? He says he wants a serious relationship, is it true? How can someone want a serious relationship with someone you just met?
Kissing on our first date?
What Guys Said 1
What he means is, he wants to get to know you more. It's a good thing he told you right from the get go where he intends to go with this. Nobody can know if they want a relationship with someone they only just met, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't try.0
What Girls Said 1
You two are dating so right now you're finding out if you're compatible. What he's saying is that he prefers being in a LTR. That he wants to get serious. It may not be with you because you two may not work out, but he's telling you what he wants. And kissing a couple of times is fine. Who's going to judge?
BUT... once you two start getting serious, there is a way to know if a man only wants sex or if he's serious. It's called the 3 month rule. A man who only wants sex will not stay with a woman for 3 months. There are a few who do (and one reason that I can think of is for a bet), but if the man wants sex, he'll leave within the 3 months.
So don't offer yourself until 3 months is over.0
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