Yes, you read correctly! We are really cool with each other and she is out of my league (shes hot). I guess you can say we have something going on, but she is a bit complicated. I wouldn't mind dating her IF SHE asked me out. Personally, I wouldn't because as much as I like and respect her as a friend, I just don't have feelings for her. I made a big deal to a few friends about how much I like her but when me and her hung out, I literally felt no emotion towards her anymore. I think this girl likes my personality, and is just comfortable with me, but maybe she doesn't like me ? We hit off at the beginning and till today we are comfortable with each other. I also kind feel like she is using me for some attention but then again it feels like she genuinely wants me in her life somehow. How can I get her to think of me as just a really good friend? My guy friend was telling me to just hit and quit but I've never been that kind of guy, and this girl has shared some personal things with me and I wouldn't want to hurt her. Im not opposing the idea of me and her ever having something, I just wouldn't date her now. Lastly, I also really want to talk to the other girl in my class because she too seems to have some interest, and this whole thing is getting in the way. What do you think of my situation? Am I crazy?
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I know... Why not set up a date for her? Tell her you want to introduce her to a guy whom you think is a good match for her. Nothing says FRIENDZONE as much as this does!! Ha ha!
A guy did this to me & it definitely confused me about his interest level in me. Except I think it's because he wasn't sure about my feelings towards him. I made it clear & now we're just flirting a lot & having fun. But that's also because I know how to trigger attraction in a man... ;)
Just be careful, because this might cause her to push more, leading to you pulling away even further... Push & pull theory - that's life!
By the way, NEVER feel that you're "out of her league". That's just bullshit society feeds you to bruise your self esteem. Confidence, at the end of the day, still remains a MAJOR determinant of attraction. NEVER underestimate it!!!2