hey can someone give me an example of what would be something good to write as a first message to a girl on a dating website that I have stuff in common with?
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Keep it "simple stupid". Go with what akadatank44 said look over her profile to find things you can talk about. If she likes animals you can ask about animals and link to YouTube videos. If she says she likes new things you can ask about the most daring things she's done. Whatever you pick, to be able to build on and branch out to other topics easily.0